Do We Have Any Option But to Be STRONG? When battling an unpleasant phase in our lives, people encourage us to be stronger and wiser.
I have no complaint. Their words fuel up both the endurance and fighting spirit in us. But, do we really have any choice but to pull out the stronger version backed by a wise mind during the process?
Going through a financial crisis? We have to be strong
Lost our loved ones? We have to be strong
Our ‘babu’ ‘babe’ found their ‘babu’ ‘babe’? We have to be strong
When unexpected disheartening happenings strike us, we have to endure the pain inflicted upon us. We grit our teeth in pain and do the needful to direct ourselves to a better situation. We swallow the disrespect, humiliation, and anguish that eventually works like a tonic to stimulate the survival instinct.
We cry or, maybe, silently shed our tears and wipe them ourselves. Even the weakest of us will do it and learn to be STRONG in the process. Life strengthens everyone in its own style.
No man or woman born humble and timid will say goodbye to this world without being strong. It is a fact, unchanged and untarnished ever.
Begging anyone for Support, Affection, Loyalty, Care, and Respect never gives favourable returns. Should we fight for it? Oh, just not worth it! Once we learn to work it out by confidently walking out of it, we experience peacefulness. And, that sense of tranquility, despite our wounded feelings, gives us Strength. We become Strong.
Does this Strong avatar make us Proud? I don’t think so
Do we wish for this Strong avatar always? Still, I don’t know
Does the pain heal completely? No, I don’t know
We don’t have any option but to be Strong. And, it is not a regret or a complaint. It is a fact that We All Are Strong.
Tough times are like getting your foot sprained. With proper attention and a little rest, it heals. It might take time, but surely heals. We learn the lesson on how to put forth our steps maneuvering different types of paths. If lessons are ignored, next time it might break. Double the pain, deeper the wound. More attention and more patience. Again, it heals. Learn the lesson. This time in a more hurtful way. Stronger we become.
Every pain teaches a new lesson. The lesson learned adds to our powerhouse of strength. We become Stronger. This way when the time comes to say goodbye, We Will Be the Strongest—all of Us.
It doesn’t matter whether we are Happy, Glad, Proud, or even Okay with it. We will be Strong in all our disheartening and difficult times.
Do I sound pessimistic? No, it’s not like that.
We surely should be grateful to ourselves for being Strong and give a pat on our back once we deal with it. But, I believe it might ease our perception of difficult times knowing that— We All Will Be Strong Passing Through Tough Situations.
Look upon yourselves and no one else. You are already Stronger than you know.
